A backup plan for sundowning in dementia respite care names who steps in, what supplies they need, and which contacts to call for confusion. MedlinePlus describes sundowning as increased confusion, anxiety, agitation and troubled sleep that begins or worsens as daylight fades evening care guidance from MedlinePlus. Respite care means a substitute caregiver covers for the regular caregiver. A written evening plan lets that person keep light, routine and calm steady.
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Table of Contents
- Who covers the sundowning hours?
- How should the backup set up the evening?
- What should the covering person do when agitation starts?
- What supplies and contacts must stay with the backup kit?
Who covers the sundowning hours?
Ask one or two familiar people to cover late afternoon through bedtime. Brief them before the shift, not at the door. Familiar faces reduce evening stress.
The Family Caregiver Alliance points families to the ARCH National Respite Locator at archrespite.org and the Eldercare Locator at 1-800-677-1116, which routes to the local Area Agency on Aging respite-finding help from the Family Caregiver Alliance. Keep the chosen backup name, arrival time and phone number on the fridge. Add a second contact in case the first is late.
How should the backup set up the evening?
Keep the home well-lit in the evening and lower TV, chores and loud stimulation. The Alzheimer's Association says low light and shadows increase confusion sleep and sundowning advice from the Alzheimer's Association. Close curtains early, turn on lamps and keep walkways clear.
MedlinePlus advises a fixed wake, meal and bedtime routine with calm daytime activity followed by quiet evening activity. The backup should follow the same times each day. Quiet music, a short walk or simple folding task can fill the afternoon, then reading or handwork can ease the shift to night.
What should the covering person do when agitation starts?
MedlinePlus advises staying calm, offering reassurance and reorientation, and reducing noise, clutter and crowding. Speak slowly, use short sentences and name familiar objects. Move extra visitors to another room.
Do not restrain the person in bed. Offer a drink, a blanket or a bathroom break. Sit nearby until the worry passes.
What supplies and contacts must stay with the backup kit?
The Family Caregiver Alliance says every backup kit needs current medicines, allergies, doctor contacts and written night steps. Leave them where the substitute will see them fast.
For after-hours crises, the Alzheimer's Association 24/7 Helpline at 800-272-3900 offers confidential support and local referrals. MedlinePlus warns that over-the-counter sleep aids can worsen confusion, so the backup must check with the clinician first.
- current medication list with doses and schedule
- allergies and physician contacts
- written bedtime and calming instructions for the substitute





