Steve

Steve

Writing about Open Class Action Lawsuits and Dementia Science and Tips since 2019!

She Doesn’t Know My Name, But She Smiles When She Sees Me

There’s something quietly powerful about a smile from someone who doesn’t even know your name. Imagine seeing a person across the room, someone you don’t really know, but every time your eyes meet, they smile at you. That simple gesture…

Dementia Is Not the End of Love

Dementia is often seen as a heartbreaking challenge that changes everything about a relationship, but it does not mean the end of love. While dementia affects memory, communication, and behavior, the emotional bonds between people can remain strong and even…

How I Learned to Be Patient with Silence

Learning to be patient with silence wasn’t something that came naturally to me. Like many people, I used to fill every quiet moment with words, music, or background noise. Silence felt awkward, even a little scary—like being alone in an…

He’s Still in There. I Have to Believe That

There’s something deeply human about the phrase **“He’s still in there. I have to believe that.”** It captures a feeling many of us know well—the hope that beneath hardship, struggle, or change, the true essence of someone remains intact. Imagine…

We Rewatch the Same Movie Every Week—It Brings Her Joy

We Rewatch the Same Movie Every Week—It Brings Her Joy Imagine having a ritual that brings you joy every week, something that you look forward to with anticipation. For many people, watching movies is a way to unwind and escape…

I Can’t Fix Her Brain, But I Can Hold Her Hand

There are moments in life when you realize that no matter how much you want to fix someone’s struggles, especially those tied to their mind, it’s simply not possible. The phrase **”I can’t fix her brain, but I can hold…

You Don’t Always Cry—Sometimes You Just Go Numb

You Don’t Always Cry—Sometimes You Just Go Numb When we think about stress and emotional pain, we often imagine tears and overwhelming feelings. However, not everyone reacts this way. Sometimes, instead of crying or feeling intense emotions, people might experience…

I Wasn’t Ready to Become My Mother’s Mother

Becoming a caregiver for a parent can be a life-changing experience, especially when it happens unexpectedly. For many, this role reversal can feel overwhelming, as if you’re suddenly becoming your mother’s mother. It’s a journey filled with emotional, logistical, and…

My Calendar Now Revolves Around Caregiving

My calendar now revolves around caregiving. It’s a shift that sneaks up on you, then becomes the center of your world. Suddenly, your days are no longer about appointments or social plans but about managing someone else’s needs—often a loved…

I Stopped Trying to Be Strong All the Time

There comes a moment in life when trying to be strong all the time stops feeling like strength and starts feeling like a heavy burden. For many, this relentless effort to hold everything together—emotions, challenges, expectations—can become exhausting and isolating.…