Dementia-Specific Advance Directives: Planning for Each Stage

Map treatment wishes to early, middle, and late dementia so your proxy knows when to shift to comfort care.

A dementia-specific advance directive is a standard advance directive plus an addendum that sets treatment wishes for each stage of dementia. It tells your proxy when to stop prolonging life and allow natural death. The Palliative Care Network of Wisconsin stages dementia as early, middle, and late as thinking and daily function decline. Stage-specific instructions remove guesswork when you can no longer speak for yourself.

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How is it different from a standard directive?

Compassion & Choices states that standard advance directives pair a living will with a durable power of attorney for health care naming a proxy, described in Planning for a Dementia Diagnosis resource. The living will states treatment wishes. The proxy speaks when capacity is lost. A dementia-specific addendum adds future dementia stages to that base.

Compassion & Choices describes a Dementia Values and Priorities Tool that walks through about 15 symptoms and stages. You record where the goal should shift from prolonging life to allowing natural death. That format fits dementia because needs change slowly over years. Useful addendum steps include:.

  • name a trusted proxy and an alternate
  • mark the stage where life-prolonging treatment should stop
  • sign the state form and share copies with proxy and clinician

What should you settle in the early stage?

People in early-stage disease are mainly independent and often retain decision-making capacity. The Palliative Care Network of Wisconsin urges completing advance directives and seeing an elder-law lawyer at that stage, explained in anticipatory guidance across dementia stages. Early action lets your own values control later care. Clinicians track decline with GDS and FAST scores for cognition and daily function, with higher scores meaning worse function.

Early scores help anchor your written limits. An example is refusing hospitalization for aggressive treatment once you cannot manage finances, medications, or travel alone. Put names, triggers, and treatment limits in plain language. Tell your proxy what prolonged life means to you, such as living at home, recognizing family, or holding a conversation.

Why revisit the plan in the middle stage?

Middle-stage disease brings daily-task failures, getting lost, not recognizing family, and agitation. The Palliative Care Network of Wisconsin notes that the surrogate takes on more health-care decisions then. Plans must be revisited as function drops. Revisiting does not mean starting over.

Review the stage markers you chose while you still had capacity. Ask whether lost function, safety events, or behavior changes have reached your stated limit. Use the visit to update contacts, housing plans, and supervision needs. Confirm that your proxy still understands when to refuse antibiotics, hospital transfer, or other life-prolonging care.

What choices matter most in late-stage dementia?

In severe disease, people need help with most daily activities and communication is severely limited. Capacity is lacking and swallowing problems emerge. Decisions shift to comfort, hand-feeding, CPR, hospitalization, and hospice choices. Alzheimer's Society UK describes a paired UK approach with an advance decision refusing specific future treatments plus an advance statement recording broader wishes and values, detailed in advance decisions and statements guide.

Stage-specific refusals and preferences travel together. An example is refusing CPR and tube feeding while requesting music, gentle touch, and spiritual care. Written directives alone do not guarantee wishes will be honored. Discuss wishes directly with trusted proxies and check state or provincial forms because laws and terms vary.


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