Ask an elder-law attorney how capacity will be documented, how the successor trustee takes over, what must be retitled into the trust, and how the plan coordinates powers of attorney and Medicaid rules. A revocable living trust is a legal arrangement where you transfer property into the trust, control it during your lifetime, and name a successor to manage bills, investments, and distributions if dementia limits your decisions. Bring a list of accounts, deeds, beneficiaries, and existing powers of attorney to that first meeting. The attorney can then spot unfunded accounts, vague incapacity triggers, and gaps that would force a court proceeding later.
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Table of Contents
- Can we still sign or change a trust?
- How will the successor take over?
- What property does the trustee actually control?
- Which companion documents do we still need?
- Will this trust pay for nursing-home care?
Can we still sign or change a trust?
A person with dementia can act only while they retain legal capacity, meaning they understand the document and its effects. Ask how the attorney will screen for capacity and record that finding early.
Ask what signs would require waiting, further evaluation, or a different plan. Acting early preserves more options and reduces later disputes among family members.
How will the successor take over?
A revocable living trust typically names you as initial trustee and a chosen successor who manages the trust after you lose capacity or die, according to the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau in what a revocable living trust does. Ask who your best successor and backup choices are, and what duties, record-keeping, and distribution rules they must follow.
Ask how the trust defines incapacity and activates that successor. Common triggers include one or two physician letters, resignation, or a court finding, and vague language causes delays when dementia progresses.
- Who serves first, second, and third as successor trustee?
- What written proof activates their authority?
- How do they show authority to banks and brokerages?
- When does their authority end or transfer?
What property does the trustee actually control?
A successor trustee controls only money and property actually titled in the trust. Ask what must be retitled, what should pass by beneficiary designation, and what will remain outside the trust.
Use the meeting to fund the trust correctly. Review each item:.
- Home deed and other real estate to retitle
- Bank and brokerage accounts to retitle or align
- Beneficiary designations to update or leave in place
- Unfunded accounts and retirement accounts that need separate handling
Which companion documents do we still need?
A trustee cannot make medical decisions or handle finances outside the trust. The Alzheimer's Association explains in its guide to legal documents for dementia planning that a financial power of attorney plus a health-care power of attorney or living will should accompany the trust.
Ask that each document state it is durable so it remains valid after incapacity. Without those advance documents, families must petition a court for guardianship or conservatorship, a time-consuming, public, attorney-required proceeding.
- Who serves as financial agent for non-trust accounts?
- Who makes health-care decisions and end-of-life choices?
- Where will signed copies and digital access be stored?
- How often should documents be reviewed as dementia progresses?
Will this trust pay for nursing-home care?
Assets in a revocable living trust remain countable for Medicaid long-term-care eligibility because you can revoke or change the trust. Ask how trust funding, durable powers, advance directives, account titling, and a possible irrevocable Medicaid-asset-protection trust fit together, as described by Montana State University Extension in its Medicaid and long-term-care guide.
Do not rely on a revocable trust alone for nursing-home costs. Ask about the five-year look-back for transfers, timing limits, and what expenses the family should plan to cover from income and savings.
