Ask an elder-law attorney which advance directives state law recognizes, whether the person can still sign them, and whom to name for medical and financial decisions. An advance directive is a legal document that states health-care wishes or appoints someone to decide when the person cannot communicate. Planning early matters because dementia may eventually impair everyday functioning. However, a diagnosis alone does not establish legal incapacity, cancel the person's choices, or justify guardianship.
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Table of Contents
- Can the Person Still Make and Sign the Documents?
- Which Documents Are Needed?
- Does the Plan Cover Medical Orders and Treatment Limits?
- Who Should Hold Medical and Financial Authority?
- How Will the Plan Stay Current and Available?
Can the Person Still Make and Sign the Documents?
Ask the attorney how capacity will be evaluated and documented. The U.S. Department of Justice explains that a court must consider medical, psychological, and other decision-making evidence before declaring someone legally incapacitated and appointing a guardian—not rely on the dementia diagnosis alone.
The Justice Department also identifies supported decision-making as a possible alternative. Useful questions include: Discuss these issues while the person can still express consistent wishes. If guardianship becomes necessary, ask what decisions the court-appointed guardian would control and which rights the person could retain.
- What evidence would show that the person understands the document?
- Should a clinician assess cognition or decision-making ability before signing?
- Could family conflict make the document vulnerable to a later challenge?
- Can the person use supported decision-making while retaining legal authority?
- What happens if the person can no longer sign a valid directive?
Which Documents Are Needed?
Ask whether the plan should include both a living will and a durable health-care power of attorney, often called a health-care proxy. A living will records treatment preferences and the circumstances in which they apply. A proxy names someone to make medical decisions when communication becomes impossible.
The National Institute on Aging distinguishes these roles: a living will describes choices about emergency treatment, while a health-care proxy makes decisions for an incapacitated person. Ask the attorney: If no proxy is named, state law decides who has priority. The default is often a spouse, parent, or adult child, which may exclude an unmarried partner or another trusted person.
- Does the living will address the medical situations most likely to cause disagreement?
- When does the proxy's authority begin?
- Can the document name a backup proxy?
- Who determines that the person cannot communicate?
- Does the wording allow the proxy to respond to an unexpected medical situation?
Does the Plan Cover Medical Orders and Treatment Limits?
Ask how the person's wishes will translate into instructions clinicians can use. A living will may describe whether the person wants or declines particular emergency treatments and under what conditions, but it does not replace every medical order. A do-not-resuscitate order, or DNR, belongs in the medical chart. POLST or MOLST forms are actionable medical orders generally intended for someone who is critically ill or near the end of life.
Ask whether the person's current health makes either form appropriate and which clinician should complete it. Also ask what happens when a directive cannot be followed exactly. advance directives are legally recognized, but complicated medical circumstances may not match the document's wording. A provider may also decline an instruction that conflicts with conscience, institutional policy, or accepted standards, while informing the proxy and considering transfer.
Who Should Hold Medical and Financial Authority?
Choose a health-care proxy who understands the person's values, can handle disagreement, and is willing to speak with clinicians. Ask the attorney whether the proposed proxy faces any legal restrictions and how to reduce conflict between the primary and backup decision-makers. Medical and financial authority require separate attention. According to the National Institute on Aging, a durable financial power of attorney covers money decisions, while a health-care proxy covers medical decisions.
Naming someone in one role does not automatically grant the other authority. A financial agent may receive extensive access with limited routine oversight, creating an opportunity for abuse. Ask how the document can limit authority, require accounting, permit revocation, and provide state-specific remedies. The Justice Department warns that agents and other fiduciaries can misuse their control over an older adult's property.
How Will the Plan Stay Current and Available?
Before leaving the attorney's office, ask for clear instructions on signing, witnessing, storing, changing, and revoking each document under state law. Confirm whether a move to another state calls for new documents or a legal review.
Make distribution part of the plan: Review the documents at least once a year and after a major health or residence change. If the person revises a directive, replace outdated copies held by the proxy, clinicians, and family so competing versions do not create confusion.
- Give the health-care proxy and backup proxy current copies.
- Provide copies to relevant clinicians.
- Tell close family members whom the person appointed.
- Remove or clearly mark superseded versions.
- Record where the originals are stored.
