What Families Should Know About Dementia and Scams

Scam vulnerability may be an early warning sign of dementia—and families need to know the red flags.

Families need to know that dementia dramatically increases vulnerability to financial scams—and this vulnerability may actually be one of the earliest warning signs of cognitive decline itself. Recent research shows that older adults with low scam awareness have approximately double the risk of developing mild cognitive impairment or Alzheimer’s disease compared to their less-vulnerable peers. A 2024 USC study found that people more susceptible to financial scams had a thinner entorhinal cortex, often the first brain region to show Alzheimer’s-related changes. This isn’t just about losing money; it’s a potential neurological red flag that families should take seriously. The financial stakes are staggering.

The FTC estimates that older adults lost $81.5 billion to fraud in 2024—though most fraud goes unreported. Reported losses alone were $2.4 billion in 2024, up 26.3% from $1.9 billion in 2023. But perhaps most alarming is the trend: reports from people 60+ who lost $10,000 or more to scammers increased fourfold between 2020 and 2024, while reports of losses exceeding $100,000 surged sevenfold during the same period, climbing from $55 million to $445 million combined. For families with a loved one showing early cognitive changes, understanding the connection between dementia and scam susceptibility can mean the difference between catching a warning sign early and watching years of accumulated savings disappear. This is especially critical because many families don’t realize their relative is being targeted—or that the targeting itself may indicate brain changes happening silently in the background.

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How Does Dementia Make Someone Vulnerable to Scams?

dementia damages the exact mental functions that protect us from financial manipulation. The disease impairs executive function—the brain’s ability to plan, weigh consequences, and resist impulses—which is precisely what you need to recognize and reject a scam. Someone with early-stage Alzheimer’s or mild cognitive impairment may struggle to remember whether they’ve heard of a company before, fail to recognize a familiar warning sign they learned months ago, or lose the ability to follow a complex financial decision through to its logical conclusion. A person with vascular dementia or other forms of cognitive decline shows similar vulnerabilities.

The research is clear: conditions including mild cognitive impairment (MCI), mild Alzheimer’s disease (AD), and vascular dementia all significantly increase scam susceptibility. People with these conditions show an increased tendency to give away money to scammers. A March 2025 Alzheimer’s Association study found that scam susceptibility was associated with earlier onset of Alzheimer’s disease, suggesting that if your loved one suddenly becomes an easy mark for financial schemes, it may warrant cognitive screening rather than simply being written off as gullibility or poor judgment. This is especially important because family members often attribute scam losses to personality changes or stubbornness rather than recognizing them as a potential symptom of disease progression.

The Most Common Scams Targeting People with Dementia

Romance and relationship scams have become especially sophisticated. Scammers create fake profiles on social media platforms and dating sites, gradually building emotional trust with an older person before eventually requesting money for emergencies, medical bills, or investment opportunities. These scams exploit the isolation that many people with early dementia experience, and they’re particularly effective because they target the emotional brain rather than the logical one. A person in early cognitive decline may forget previous warning signs about the relationship or fail to notice inconsistencies in the scammer’s story. Phishing scams, telemarketing fraud, and lottery schemes round out the most common tactics. Phishing scams send fraudulent emails or direct victims to fake websites that look identical to legitimate banks or services, asking for passwords, full Social Security numbers, or complete credit card information.

Someone with dementia may forget that their actual bank never sends unsolicited emails requesting this information. Telemarketing scams work by having callers impersonate reputable companies, charities, or government agencies—and someone with cognitive decline who has difficulty recalling past associations becomes an ideal target. Lottery and sweepstakes scams promise large winnings but require upfront payment, a logic trap that becomes harder to spot when executive function declines. Investment scams and unauthorized financial exploitation by trusted individuals represent even more insidious threats. According to FTC data, older adults report their largest losses to investment fraud discovered on social media, with people aged 80 and older losing a median of $1,600 or more per incident. Real estate scams offering fake property investment opportunities also plague this population. And sometimes the threat comes from within: unauthorized check cashing, misuse of funds by trusted people in the home, and manipulation of power-of-attorney documents represent financial exploitation that families need to monitor for carefully.

Growth in High-Value Fraud Against Seniors (2020-2024)202055$ millions2021100$ millions2022200$ millions2023350$ millions2024445$ millionsSource: FTC Financial Fraud Reports (2020-2024)

Early Warning Signs That Someone Is Being Targeted

A red flag that most families miss is unexplained changes in bank statements or sudden large money transfers from accounts. If your loved one’s account shows regular withdrawals to unfamiliar recipients, purchases of gift cards in unusual quantities, or wire transfers to unknown people or places, these warrant investigation immediately. Missing financial documents, particularly statements, checks, or investment records, is another serious warning sign—sometimes the victim has been convinced to hide evidence of the “business opportunity” they’re supposedly involved in. Another indicator is if your loved one suddenly becomes secretive about finances or becomes defensive when you ask about money.

Someone with dementia who is being scammed may not fully understand what’s happening but senses that something is wrong, leading to evasiveness. They may also have difficulty explaining where money went, claim they’ve already paid bills that haven’t been paid, or become confused about their account balances. In some cases, you may notice recurring calls from unknown numbers, aggressive debt collection efforts for debts your relative insists they don’t owe, or letters from financial institutions about accounts you didn’t know existed. These aren’t just signs of financial trouble—they’re signs that someone may have successfully opened fraudulent accounts in your loved one’s name.

What Family Caregivers Can Do to Protect Someone with Dementia

The most practical first step is to establish a system for regularly reviewing financial statements alongside your loved one. Many families wait too long to intervene because they don’t want to seem controlling or invasive. But when dementia is present, this monitoring becomes a medical responsibility, similar to monitoring medication or nutrition. Set up alerts on bank accounts for large transactions, sign up for credit monitoring services that track whether new accounts are being opened in your relative’s name, and consider placing a fraud alert with the major credit bureaus. This takes a few hours initially but can prevent losses of hundreds of thousands of dollars. Next, have a calm, direct conversation about securing financial accounts.

If possible, move accounts to require dual signatures or authorization for large transfers. Establish who has power of attorney for financial decisions—and make sure this is formally documented with the bank, not just a handshake agreement. Consider whether a conservatorship or guardianship is appropriate in your situation, particularly if cognitive decline is advanced. Get written authorization from your loved one (and ideally, have it witnessed and notarized) granting you access to financial accounts, statements, and credit reports. The Alzheimer’s Association provides a free resource called “Managing Money: A Caregiver’s Guide to Finances” that walks families through these steps. A limitation to understand: even with these protections in place, determined scammers can sometimes work around them or manipulate your loved one into circumventing your safeguards. This is why ongoing vigilance matters more than any single protective measure.

Technology Safeguards and Their Limitations

Caller ID screening and answering machines can filter obvious scam calls, and you should advise your relative not to answer calls from unknown numbers. However, scammers spoof legitimate phone numbers—they may call claiming to be from your loved one’s bank, using the actual bank’s real phone number displayed on the caller ID. This means caller ID blocking alone isn’t sufficient protection. Enable additional security features on phones if possible, such as Do Not Call registry enrollment (though this has limited effectiveness against sophisticated scammers), and consider setting up a dedicated phone for your loved one that screens calls through a trusted family member. Email and text security matter, but here again, technology has limitations.

Phishing emails and texts can be extremely convincing, mimicking real companies perfectly. Someone with dementia may not remember that their bank never sends unsolicited requests for passwords via email, and they may click links before you can warn them. The best approach is to disable automatic email downloads and text notifications on devices your loved one uses, then check these accounts yourself on a schedule. Disable online shopping and one-click purchasing. Consider restricting access to credit cards and keeping only a debit card with a low daily spending limit in your loved one’s possession. These measures sound restrictive, but they’re proportionate to the cognitive changes occurring.

Who Is Most at Risk and Why

People aged 80 and older report the highest median losses to scams ($1,600+ per incident for investment fraud), making them a primary target. But vulnerability isn’t just about age—it’s about the intersection of accumulated savings, social isolation, and cognitive change. Socially isolated seniors are particularly vulnerable because isolation combines with cognitive decline to create a perfect storm. A lonely person with early dementia who spends time online becomes an ideal scam target because they’re seeking connection, their judgment is impaired, and they may have fewer people around them to catch the fraud quickly.

Another high-risk group is people with undiagnosed cognitive impairment who don’t yet know they’re experiencing decline. They believe their judgment is still sound, so they don’t question their own decisions about financial matters. A person who has always managed money successfully may fall for a scam and then rationalize it afterward (“The investment just didn’t pan out”) rather than recognizing it as fraud. This delayed recognition is one reason why scam losses in this population often accumulate—the person may be hit multiple times before anyone realizes what’s happening.

Reporting Fraud and Getting Help After It Happens

If you discover that your loved one has been scammed, report it to the FTC at consumer.ftc.gov, which collects data on scams and uses it to investigate patterns of fraud. Also report to your state’s consumer protection agency and, if a bank or financial institution is involved, to that institution’s fraud department immediately. Most banks can reverse fraudulent charges within a certain window, but time matters—the first 24-48 hours are critical. If your relative was scammed through a gift card or wire transfer, contact the platform or money transfer service immediately to see if the transaction can be stopped or reversed.

Beyond financial remedies, adult protective services and community service agencies provide coordinated prevention networks and can intervene if there’s evidence of ongoing exploitation or abuse. If your loved one is competent, they have the right to refuse protection, but if cognitive impairment is present, you may be able to pursue legal intervention. Document everything: save emails, screenshots of websites, records of calls, and bank statements showing fraudulent activity. This documentation becomes evidence if you need to pursue legal action or establish guardianship. Most importantly, recognize that financial exploitation of people with dementia is increasingly common—you’re not alone, and resources exist to help prevent it and recover from it.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Is scam susceptibility actually a sign of dementia?

Research suggests it can be. A 2024 USC study found that people more vulnerable to financial scams had a thinner entorhinal cortex, a brain region that typically shows Alzheimer’s changes first. A March 2025 Alzheimer’s Association study found scam susceptibility was associated with earlier Alzheimer’s onset. If someone who previously managed money well suddenly becomes an easy target for fraud, cognitive screening is warranted.

How much money do scammers typically take from older adults?

The FTC estimates actual losses at $81.5 billion in 2024, though most fraud goes unreported. Reported losses were $2.4 billion in 2024. High-value scams ($100,000+) represented $1.6 billion of reported losses, with a sevenfold increase in such scams from 2020 to 2024. Investment scams targeting people 80+ average $1,600+ per victim.

What’s the most common scam targeting someone with dementia?

Romance and relationship scams are particularly effective because they build emotional trust before requesting money. Phishing scams, telemarketing fraud, lottery schemes, and investment fraud are also extremely common. The scammer’s method depends on the target’s habits, so someone who uses social media may be targeted through dating sites, while someone who answers the phone may be hit with telemarketing fraud.

Can my relative’s bank help recover money lost to a scam?

It depends on the type of scam and how quickly you report it. If someone used a credit card fraudulently or if the transfer was unauthorized, banks can often reverse charges within 24-48 hours. However, if your relative was convinced to voluntarily send money (even if they were scammed into believing they had a legitimate reason), recovery is much harder. Wire transfers and gift card purchases are nearly impossible to reverse.

Should I take control of all my relative’s finances if they have dementia?

This depends on their level of impairment and your jurisdiction’s legal requirements. You might start by establishing power of attorney, setting up account alerts and dual-signature requirements, and regular financial reviews together. If cognitive decline is advanced or your relative is unable or unwilling to cooperate with safety measures, you may need to pursue guardianship or conservatorship, but this varies by state and should involve a lawyer familiar with elder law.

Where do I report fraud if it’s already happened?

Report to the FTC at consumer.ftc.gov, your state’s consumer protection agency, and the financial institution involved. If there’s evidence of ongoing exploitation or abuse, contact adult protective services. Documentation (emails, screenshots, bank statements, call records) strengthens your report and any legal action that follows. —


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