Your uncle with dementia might be stacking books upside down because of changes happening in his brain. Dementia affects how people think and remember things, so everyday tasks can become confusing[1].
When someone has dementia, the part of their brain that understands how objects should be positioned can get mixed up. Your uncle may not realize the books are upside down, or he might think that’s the right way to stack them[1].
Sometimes, people with dementia do repetitive actions like stacking or sorting things. This can make them feel calm and in control when other parts of life seem confusing[1]. Stacking books, even if upside down, might be soothing for your uncle.
It’s also possible your uncle is trying to be helpful by organizing, but his brain isn’t processing how books normally go on a shelf[1]. He may think he’s doing a good job tidying up.
The important thing is not to get upset or correct him harshly. Dementia can be frustrating for the person experiencing it. Instead, gently help rearrange the books if needed, or find other safe activities he enjoys that involve sorting or stacking[1].
Remember, this behavior isn’t on purpose. Your uncle’s brain is changing, affecting how he sees and interacts with the world around him. Patience and understanding go a long way in helping someone with dementia feel comfortable and supported.
