Why is Your Mother with Dementia Stuffing Crackers into Her Shoes?
If you’ve noticed your mother with dementia putting crackers in her shoes, you’re not alone. This behavior might seem strange, but it’s actually not uncommon for people with dementia to do unusual things with food or other objects.
Dementia affects the brain in ways that can change a person’s behavior and habits. As the disease progresses, people might start doing things that don’t make sense to others. This can include putting things in odd places or using objects in ways they’re not meant to be used[1].
One possible explanation for this behavior is that your mother might be experiencing something called “pica.” Pica is when someone eats or tries to eat things that aren’t food. In dementia, this can extend to hiding food in strange places[7]. Your mother might be trying to save the crackers for later, but because of her condition, she’s putting them in her shoes instead of a more logical place.
Another reason could be that your mother is having trouble recognizing what objects are for. As dementia advances, people can forget the purpose of everyday items[3]. She might not realize that shoes are for wearing and crackers are for eating.
It’s also possible that this behavior is a way for your mother to feel in control. People with dementia often feel confused and may try to create order in their own way. Putting crackers in her shoes might make sense to her, even if it doesn’t to anyone else[1].
This situation can be frustrating and even a bit scary for family members. But it’s important to remember that your mother isn’t doing this on purpose to upset anyone. It’s a symptom of her condition.
If you’re worried about this behavior, it’s a good idea to talk to your mother’s doctor. They can help you understand what’s happening and suggest ways to keep your mother safe and comfortable. They might also be able to adjust her treatment to help manage these symptoms[4].
In the meantime, try to be patient and understanding. Keep an eye on your mother to make sure she’s not eating anything dangerous. You might need to do some extra tidying up, like checking her shoes before she puts them on. Remember, this behavior is part of the disease, not a reflection on you or your care.
Dealing with dementia can be challenging, but you’re not alone. There are support groups and resources available to help you navigate this journey with your mother. With patience and the right support, you can help ensure your mother stays safe and comfortable.
