Your grandmother’s behavior of trying to tie a scarf around the doorknob may be related to her dementia. This condition can cause changes in thinking, memory, and behavior that might seem unusual or confusing to others[1].
As dementia progresses, people often experience difficulties with everyday tasks and may engage in behaviors that don’t make sense to us. Your grandmother might be trying to complete a task she remembers from her past, but is now confused about how to do it properly[1][2].
Sometimes, people with dementia can become restless or fidgety, which might lead them to interact with objects in strange ways[2]. The scarf and doorknob could be catching her attention, and she might be trying to do something familiar with them, even if it doesn’t seem logical to us.
It’s also possible that your grandmother is experiencing some form of hallucination or misperception. People with dementia can sometimes see things that aren’t there or misinterpret what they’re seeing[1][2]. She might think the doorknob is something else entirely, and the scarf-tying could make sense in her mind.
Another explanation could be that she’s trying to communicate something but lacks the words to express it clearly. People with dementia often struggle with language and might resort to actions to convey their needs or feelings[1][2].
It’s important to approach this situation with patience and understanding. While the behavior might seem odd, it’s likely not harmful. Try to ensure her safety, gently redirect her if necessary, and consider consulting with her doctor about any new or unusual behaviors. They might be able to provide more specific insights or suggest ways to manage these situations[2].
Remember, dementia affects each person differently, and behaviors can vary widely. Your grandmother’s actions, while confusing, are part of how the condition is affecting her brain. Providing a calm, supportive environment can help her feel more comfortable and secure.
