Grandma’s Newspaper Shoe Stuffing: What’s Going On?
If you’ve noticed your grandmother with dementia putting newspaper in her shoes, you’re not alone. This behavior can seem odd, but it’s actually quite common in people with dementia. Let’s look at why this might be happening.
Memory of the Past
Many older folks remember a time when stuffing shoes with newspaper was normal. Back in the day, people would do this to help shoes keep their shape or to dry them out after getting wet. Your grandma might be remembering this old habit and repeating it, even if it’s not necessary now.
Comfort and Security
For someone with dementia, the world can feel confusing and scary sometimes. Stuffing shoes with newspaper might make your grandma feel like she’s doing something useful and familiar. It could be giving her a sense of comfort and control.
Sensory Needs
Dementia can change how a person experiences sensations. Your grandma might be stuffing her shoes because she likes how it feels. The extra padding might make her feet feel more secure or comfortable.
Trying to Fix Something
People with dementia sometimes think there’s a problem that needs fixing, even when there isn’t. Your grandma might believe her shoes are too big or have holes in them, and she’s trying to “fix” this imagined issue.
Boredom or Restlessness
Sometimes, people with dementia do repetitive actions because they’re bored or restless. Stuffing shoes could be a way for your grandma to keep her hands busy and feel like she’s accomplishing a task.
What Can You Do?
While this behavior is usually harmless, it’s a good idea to keep an eye on it. Make sure the newspaper isn’t causing any discomfort or making it hard for her to walk. You could try giving her other safe activities to keep her hands busy, like folding towels or sorting objects.
Remember, this behavior is part of the dementia and not something your grandma is doing to be difficult. Patience and understanding are key. If you’re worried, it’s always best to chat with her doctor about any new behaviors.
