Grandma’s Tissue Habit: A Sign of Dementia
If you’ve noticed your grandmother with dementia filling her dresser drawers with tissues, you’re not alone. This behavior is actually quite common in people with dementia and has a few possible explanations.
First, let’s understand that dementia affects the brain in ways that can change a person’s behavior and habits. Your grandma might be doing this because her memory and thinking skills are declining[1][3]. She might forget where tissues belong or think she needs to store them for later.
Sometimes, people with dementia develop a habit called “hoarding” where they collect and store items, even if they don’t need them[1]. Tissues are small, easy to handle, and might feel comforting to your grandma. She might be gathering them as a way to feel secure or in control.
Another reason could be that your grandmother is trying to stay busy or feel useful[3]. Organizing or rearranging items, even in unusual ways, can give her a sense of purpose.
It’s also possible that your grandma is experiencing some confusion about the purpose of her dresser drawers[1]. She might think they’re meant for storing tissues instead of clothes.
While this behavior might seem odd to you, it’s usually harmless. However, it’s a good idea to keep an eye on it. Make sure she’s not eating the tissues or other non-food items, which can be a condition called pica that sometimes occurs with dementia[11].
Remember, your grandma isn’t doing this to be difficult. It’s just part of how dementia is affecting her brain. The best approach is to respond with patience and understanding. You might gently remind her where tissues usually go, but don’t scold her or force her to stop if it’s not causing any harm.
If you’re concerned about this or any other unusual behaviors, it’s always a good idea to talk to her doctor. They can provide guidance on managing dementia symptoms and ensure your grandmother is getting the care she needs.
Dealing with a loved one’s dementia can be challenging, but remember, you’re not alone. There are resources and support available to help both you and your grandmother through this journey.
