Why is my grandfather with dementia clutching a book but unable to read?

Grandpa’s Mysterious Book: Understanding Dementia’s Reading Puzzle

Have you ever noticed your grandfather with dementia holding onto a book tightly, but not actually reading it? This common behavior can be both puzzling and heartbreaking for family members. Let’s explore why this happens and what it means.

Dementia affects the brain in complex ways, causing memory loss and changes in behavior[1]. For many people with dementia, familiar objects like books can provide comfort and a sense of normalcy, even if they can no longer use them as intended[2].

Your grandfather may be holding the book because it feels familiar and safe. Books were likely an important part of his life before dementia, and clutching one now may help him feel connected to his past[1]. The book becomes a source of security, like a child’s favorite stuffed animal.

However, dementia often impairs a person’s ability to read and comprehend text[3]. The brain changes make it difficult to focus, understand words, or follow a story. So while your grandfather wants to engage with the book, he may no longer be able to actually read it.

This doesn’t mean the book has lost all meaning. Your grandfather may be looking at the pictures, enjoying the feel of the pages, or simply finding comfort in holding something familiar[2]. The act of holding a book may also be a way for him to maintain a sense of identity as someone who enjoys reading.

It’s important to remember that even if your grandfather can’t read anymore, books can still play a positive role in his life. You might try reading aloud to him, looking at picture books together, or simply sitting with him while he holds his favorite book[3]. These activities can provide meaningful connection and comfort.

Seeing a loved one change due to dementia is never easy. But understanding behaviors like book clutching can help us respond with empathy and find new ways to connect. Your grandfather’s love for books is still there, even if it’s expressed differently now.