Your father’s behavior of rubbing lotion on his socks might seem strange, but it’s actually not uncommon for people with dementia. As dementia progresses, it can affect a person’s judgment, memory, and ability to perform everyday tasks correctly[1][3].
In this case, your father might be confusing his socks with his feet or legs. He may remember that he needs to apply lotion to his skin but is unable to distinguish between his socks and his actual body. This confusion is a symptom of the cognitive decline associated with dementia[1].
Another possibility is that your father is experiencing sensory issues. People with dementia sometimes develop unusual sensory perceptions or sensitivities. The act of rubbing lotion on his socks might provide a comforting sensory experience for him[1][3].
It’s also possible that your father is trying to carry out a familiar routine, like moisturizing his feet, but is doing so in a confused manner. People with dementia often cling to familiar routines, even if they can’t perform them correctly anymore[1].
This behavior could also be a form of repetitive action, which is common in dementia. Repetitive behaviors can sometimes be soothing for people with dementia when they’re feeling anxious or overwhelmed[3].
While this behavior might be frustrating or concerning to witness, it’s important to remember that it’s not harmful. However, you should make sure your father isn’t ingesting the lotion, as this could be dangerous[5].
To help manage this behavior, you could try redirecting your father to a similar but more appropriate activity. For example, you could offer to help him apply lotion to his feet or hands. You might also consider removing lotions from easily accessible areas when they’re not in use[1][3].
Remember, patience and understanding are key when dealing with unusual behaviors in dementia. If you’re concerned about this or any other behaviors, it’s always a good idea to consult with your father’s healthcare provider. They can offer specific advice and ensure there are no underlying issues that need to be addressed[1][3].
