Dementia can cause confusion and repetitive behaviors in those affected. Your father’s daily ritual of packing a suitcase likely stems from his condition altering his sense of time and place. He may feel he needs to prepare for a trip or move, even if no such plans exist. This behavior could be triggered by memories of past travels or a desire to feel productive and in control. The routine may provide comfort and familiarity in a world that increasingly feels unfamiliar to him.
While frustrating for caregivers, it’s important to approach this behavior with patience and empathy. Arguing or trying to convince him it’s unnecessary rarely helps and may cause distress. Instead, you might gently redirect his attention to other activities or incorporate the packing into a daily routine you do together. Some families find success in keeping a pre-packed suitcase that can be “checked” each morning.
This behavior, though repetitive, is generally harmless. However, if it causes significant anxiety or interferes with daily life, consulting his doctor may be helpful. They might suggest strategies to manage the behavior or evaluate if medication adjustments could help reduce confusion.
Remember, your father isn’t doing this to be difficult. His brain is struggling to make sense of his current reality. Approaching the situation with compassion and creativity can help both of you navigate this challenging aspect of dementia[1][2].
