Aunt Mabel’s Clock Conundrum: When Time Seems to Have Eyes
Imagine your sweet Aunt Mabel, who’s always been a bit quirky, suddenly insisting that the old grandfather clock in her living room is spying on her. It might sound funny at first, but for people with dementia, this kind of belief can be very real and distressing.
Dementia messes with how the brain works, especially the parts that help us make sense of what we see and hear. When these parts get wonky, everyday objects can seem strange or even threatening[5].
For someone like Aunt Mabel, that ticking clock might not just be keeping time anymore. Her brain might be playing tricks on her, making her think those clock hands are actually eyes, watching her every move. It’s not just clocks, either. People with dementia might become suspicious of mirrors, TVs, or even family photos[3].
This kind of mix-up is called a delusion. It’s when someone strongly believes something that isn’t true, even when others try to explain reality[5]. For Aunt Mabel, the idea that the clock is watching her feels 100% real, no matter how many times you tell her it’s just keeping time.
So why the clock? Well, clocks are always moving and making noise. For a brain that’s struggling to process information correctly, that constant motion and sound might seem like it has a purpose beyond just telling time. Plus, many clocks have faces with numbers arranged in a circle, which might look like eyes to someone whose perception is altered.
It’s important to remember that Aunt Mabel isn’t being difficult on purpose. Her brain is literally seeing the world differently now. Instead of arguing with her about the clock, it might be better to acknowledge her feelings and try to make her feel safe. Maybe move the clock to another room or cover it up if it’s really bothering her.
Dealing with dementia is tough, both for the person who has it and for their loved ones. But understanding why Aunt Mabel might think the clock is watching her can help us respond with patience and kindness. After all, in her world, that clock really does have its eyes on her – and that must be pretty scary.
