Signs of dementia that often go unnoticed by families

Dementia is often thought of as a condition that only affects memory, but the truth is much more complex. Many early signs can be subtle and easily missed by families, especially when changes happen gradually or are mistaken for normal aging. Recognizing these less obvious symptoms can help families seek support sooner.

One of the most overlooked signs is trouble with language and communication. A person might struggle to find the right words, repeat themselves often, or have trouble following conversations. They might call everyday objects by the wrong name—like calling a watch a “hand clock”—or seem to lose their train of thought mid-sentence. These changes can be brushed off as occasional forgetfulness, but when they happen regularly, they may point to something more serious.

Changes in mood and personality are another set of clues that often go unnoticed. Someone who was once easygoing might become irritable, anxious, or withdrawn. They may seem unusually sad or apathetic, lose interest in hobbies they once loved, or avoid social gatherings because it feels harder to keep up with conversations and activities. Sudden mood swings or increased sensitivity to changes in routine can also be early indicators.

Problems with judgment and decision-making can creep in quietly. A person might start making uncharacteristically poor financial choices, neglect personal hygiene, or fail to recognize dangerous situations—like leaving the stove on or walking into traffic without looking both ways. Families sometimes attribute these lapses to carelessness rather than seeing them as possible signs of cognitive decline.

Difficulty with planning and problem-solving is another subtle sign. Tasks that used to be simple—like following a recipe, managing bills