When a loved one with dementia is being exploited, involving social services can be a crucial step to protect their well-being and rights. Exploitation may include financial abuse, neglect, or other forms of mistreatment, which people with dementia are particularly vulnerable to due to memory loss and impaired judgment.
The first step is to recognize the signs of exploitation. These can include unusual bank withdrawals, unpaid bills despite available funds, sudden changes in legal documents, missing possessions, or behavioral changes such as fear or withdrawal. Physical signs or neglect may also be indicators if the person’s care needs are not being met properly[3].
Once you suspect exploitation, it is important to document your observations carefully. Keep records of financial statements, medical reports, or any communication that supports your concerns. This documentation will be essential when reporting the situation to authorities or social services[4].
Contacting Adult Protective Services (APS) or the equivalent local social service agency is the next step. APS is responsible for investigating reports of elder abuse and exploitation and can provide protective interventions. You can usually make a report by phone or online, and the agency will assess the situation to determine the appropriate response. If there is an immediate danger, calling emergency services is necessary[3].
Social workers play a vital role in these cases. They assess the individual’s needs, coordinate care, and connect families with resources. Social workers can also help develop safety plans, facilitate communication among family members, and provide counseling and support tailored to the person’s unique situation. Their involvement helps ensure that interventions respect the dignity and autonomy of the person with dementia while protecting them from harm[2][5].
In some cases, legal and financial planning should be addressed alongside social services involvement. Establishing powers of attorney, guardianships, or conservatorships may be necessary to manage finances and healthcare decisions legally and prevent further exploitation. Early planning is beneficial to avoid court battles and family conflicts[1].
Families should also consider involving neutral third parties, such as social workers or mediators, to help navigate difficult conversations and reduce tensions. Transparent communication and documented decisions can prevent misunderstandings and protect the interests of the person with dementia[1][4].
Resources such as the Alzheimer’s Association offer helplines and support for families dealing with dementia-related challenges, including exploitation concerns. Local eldercare agencies and social service departments can provide guidance on reporting and accessing protective services[7].
Sources
https://www.jameslwest.org/the-conversation-no-one-wants-to-have-legal-and-financial-planning-after-a-dementia-diagnosis/
https://www.thesupportivecare.com/blog/how-social-workers-enhance-quality-of-life-in-senior-care-settings
https://www.pittcountync.gov/901/Elder-Abuse-Prevention
https://pameladwilson.com/how-to-stop-elderly-abuse-of-parents-by-adult-children/
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MsXXigx4-KA
https://hr.uw.edu/worklife/caring-for-adults/additional-elder-care-resources/
