Getting a dementia diagnosis can be overwhelming, and knowing what to ask your doctor afterward is important to understand the condition and plan for the future. Here’s how you can approach this conversation in a clear, simple way.
First, **bring someone with you**—a family member or close friend who has noticed changes in your memory or behavior. They can help remember details and support you during the appointment.
Before seeing your doctor, **make a list of changes** you’ve experienced. Include things like memory lapses, mood shifts, confusion about familiar places or people, or difficulty with daily tasks. Also list all medications and supplements you’re taking because some might affect cognition.
When talking to your doctor:
– Ask **what type of dementia** you have been diagnosed with (such as Alzheimer’s disease or Lewy body dementia) because different types may require different treatments.
– Find out **what caused these symptoms**, if it’s possible to identify underlying factors like vitamin deficiencies, infections, medication side effects, high blood pressure or diabetes that could be treated.
– Request information on **how quickly the condition might progress** and what signs to watch for as it advances.
– Discuss how this diagnosis will affect your ability to live independently now and in the future.
– Ask about available treatments: Are there medications that could help? What lifestyle changes might improve brain health?
– Inquire about specialists: Will you need referrals to neurologists (brain specialists), geriatricians (doctors for older adults), or psychiatrists?
It also helps to ask practical questions such as:
– What tests will I need next? Will there be blood work, brain scans like MRI or CT?
– How often should I come back for check-ups?
– Are there resources like support groups or counseling services available?
During the visit, don’t hesitate to ask your doctor to explain medical terms simply if something isn’t clear. Taking notes—or having someone else do so—can make it easier later on.
Remember that being open about all symptoms including mood changes is key; sometimes cognitive problems are worsened by anxiety or depression which can be treated separately.
By preparing ahead with specific questions focused on understanding your diagnosis clearly and planning next steps thoughtfully, you’ll feel more empowered navigating life after a dementia diagnosis.




