Dementia is a condition that affects the brain and changes how a person thinks, remembers, and behaves. Many people wonder if dementia can make someone forget their childhood. The answer is not simple, but it is important to understand how dementia works and what kinds of memories are most affected as the disease progresses.
When dementia starts, it often targets recent memories first. This means a person might forget what they had for breakfast, what they did yesterday, or even the names of people they met recently. This is because the brain areas responsible for forming new memories, like the hippocampus, are usually damaged early in the disease process [5]. As dementia gets worse, it can start to affect older memories, but the way this happens is not always the same for everyone.
Childhood memories are often called long-term memories. These are memories from many years ago, like your first day of school, a family vacation, or a special birthday. Long-term memories are stored in different parts of the brain than recent memories. In the early and middle stages of dementia, people usually keep their childhood memories for a long time. They might not remember what happened last week, but they can still tell stories about their childhood, their parents, or their friends from school [5].
However, as dementia becomes more severe, especially in the later stages, even these older memories can start to fade. The brain damage from dementia can spread to the areas that store long-term memories, making it harder for a person to recall events from their past. This does not mean that all childhood memories are lost at once. Some people with advanced dementia may still remember certain details from their childhood, while others may lose the ability to recall those memories completely [5].
It is also important to know that dementia does not affect all types of memory in the same way. For example, procedural memory, which is the memory for skills and habits like riding a bike or playing an instrument, can last longer than other types of memory. Emotional memories, such as the feeling of happiness or sadness linked to a childhood event, might also remain even when the details of the event are forgotten [5].
There are different types of dementia, and each type can affect memory in slightly different ways. Alzheimer’s disease, the most common type of dementia, usually starts with problems remembering recent events. Over time, it can affect older memories, including childhood memories. Other types of dementia, like frontotemporal dementia, might affect language and behavior more than memory in the early stages, but as the disease progresses, memory loss can also become a problem [5].
Scientists have found that some factors can influence how quickly and how much memory is lost in dementia. For example, research shows that people who have a higher cognitive reserve, which means their brains have more ability to cope with damage, may be able to keep their memories longer, even if they have dementia [6]. Cognitive reserve can be built up through education, mental activity, and social engagement throughout life.
Another interesting finding is that childhood loneliness might increase the risk of dementia later in life. A study published in JAMA Network Open found that people who felt lonely as children had a 41% higher risk of developing dementia as adults, and they also experienced faster cognitive decline as they got older [1]. This suggests that early life experiences can have a lasting impact on brain health, even decades later.
When it comes to the science of memory and dementia, researchers are still learning a lot. For example, scientists at the University of Virginia have discovered that certain structures in the brain, called perineuronal nets, play a role in protecting social memories, which are memories about people and relationships [3]. In Alzheimer’s disease, these structures can be damaged, leading to problems with remembering family and friends. This research is helping scientists understand why people with dementia often forget the names and faces of loved ones, even before they forget other kinds of information [4].
It is also worth noting that memory loss in dementia is not the same as normal aging. As people get older, it is normal to have some trouble remembering things, but this is usually mild and does not interfere with daily life. Dementia, on the other hand, causes a much more severe and rapid decline in memory and thinking skills, and it can affect a person’s ability to live independently [1].
In some cases, people with dementia might not forget their childhood memories, but they might have trouble organizing or sharing those memories. They might mix up the details, forget the order of events, or have trouble finding the right words to describe what happened. This can make it seem like they have forgotten their childhood, when in fact they are just having trouble accessing or expressing those memories [5].
There are also rare types of dementia that can affect memory in unusual ways. For example, some people with dementia might lose the ability to recognize familiar faces, including those of family members, but still be able to recognize objects or places. This is called prosopagnosia, and it can be very distressing for both the person with dementia and their loved ones [5].
In summary, dementia can make it harder for people to remember their childhood, especially as the disease gets worse. However, the way this happens can be different for each person, and some childhood memories may remain even in the later stages of dementia. Scientists are still learning about how dementia affects memory, and new research is helping to explain why some memories are lost while others are kept [1][3][4][5][6].
Sources
[1] Hindustan Times – Study finds childhood loneliness can shape brain health decades later, raising dementia risk
[2] PsyPost – Lonely children have an increased risk of dementia and cognitive decline in adulthood, study finds
[3] New Atlas – New target to prevent Alzheimer’s patients forgetting loved ones
[4] UVA News – UVA Researchers Discover Possible Reason Why People With Alzheimer’s Forget Family and Friends
[5] Alzheimer’s Research UK – Spotting early signs that could be dementia: when should you worry?
[6] PMC – Cognitive reserve predicts baseline tau burden in the U.S. POINTER study





