Steve

Steve

Writing about Open Class Action Lawsuits and Dementia Science and Tips since 2019!

I Had to Learn to Speak in Simple Sentences

Learning to speak in simple sentences was a journey that taught me a lot about communication and confidence. At first, it seemed like a daunting task, but as I progressed, I realized how much it improved my ability to express…

Why I Record My Mom’s Voice

I record my mom’s voice because it captures something truly special that words on a page or photos just can’t fully express. Her voice holds the warmth, emotion, and personality that bring her stories to life. When she talks about…

This Is What Love Looks Like After a Diagnosis

Love after a diagnosis takes on a new shape—one that is often deeper, more complex, and filled with challenges that healthy couples might never face. When someone receives a serious diagnosis, whether it’s cancer, dementia, or another life-altering illness, the…

I Wish I’d Asked More Questions Before Dementia Took Over

There’s a quiet regret many people share when dementia enters their lives—**wishing they had asked more questions before it took over**. Dementia doesn’t just steal memories; it changes how someone thinks, communicates, and connects with the world around them. Often,…

The Last Normal Day We Ever Had

The phrase **”The Last Normal Day We Ever Had”** carries a heavy weight, often used to describe a moment in time before everything changed—before life as we knew it shifted into something unfamiliar and uncertain. It’s that day when routine…

Why I Keep Telling My Mom She’s Safe

I keep telling my mom she’s safe because, deep down, I want her to feel calm and secure in a world that sometimes feels uncertain and overwhelming. When someone we love gets older or faces challenges—whether it’s health issues, mobility…

I Used to Hate Repeating Myself—Now It’s a Daily Ritual

I used to dread repeating myself. Whether it was explaining the same thing at work, reminding my kids about chores, or going over instructions again and again, it felt exhausting and pointless. I thought repetition was a sign of failure—like…

Grief Before Death Is Still Grief

Grief before death, often called **anticipatory grief**, is a very real and complex experience. It happens when someone begins to mourn the loss of a loved one *before* they have actually passed away. This type of grief can be just…

How Dementia Taught Me to Slow Down

Living with dementia has been a profound teacher in the art of slowing down. When I first faced the diagnosis, it felt like my world was rushing past me faster than I could keep up. Tasks that once seemed automatic…

You Don’t Get Used to It—You Learn to Live Around It

Living with a chronic condition—whether it’s physical or mental—is not about simply getting used to the difficulties it brings. Instead, it’s about learning how to live around those challenges and finding ways to keep moving forward despite them. When someone…