Steve

Steve

Writing about Open Class Action Lawsuits and Dementia Science and Tips since 2019!

I Never Thought I’d Miss the Way She Argued

There’s a strange kind of nostalgia that sneaks up on you when you think about the way she argued. At the time, it might have felt exhausting or frustrating—those moments when voices rose, emotions flared, and neither side seemed willing…

Our Goodbye Is Taking Years

Our goodbye is taking years — it’s a feeling many of us know, even if we don’t always put it into words. Sometimes, saying goodbye isn’t a quick moment or a clean break. Instead, it stretches out, tangled with memories,…

Every Memory Matters—Even When They’re Gone

Every memory matters, even when the people or moments behind them are no longer with us. Memories are more than just mental snapshots; they are the threads that weave our identity, shape our relationships, and keep the essence of our…

She Doesn’t Know the Year, But She Knows I Love Her

She doesn’t know the year, but she knows I love her. It’s a simple truth wrapped in something deeper. Sometimes, the details don’t matter as much as the feeling behind them. She might forget the date, the month, or even…

The Same Story—Told a Hundred Times—Still Matters

The idea that the same story, told over and over again, still matters is something we experience all the time. Whether it’s a tale from history, a personal experience, or a lesson passed down through generations, repetition doesn’t make it…

I Found Peace in Repetition

There’s something quietly powerful about repetition. When you do the same thing over and over, it can feel monotonous at first, but with time, it often brings a surprising sense of calm and peace. This happens because repetition helps your…

How Dementia Made Me Less Afraid of Aging

Dementia is often seen as a frightening condition tied to aging, but for me, facing it head-on changed how I feel about growing older. When I was diagnosed, the fear of losing my memory and independence was overwhelming at first.…

The Day She Forgot She Had Children

There was a day when she simply forgot she had children. Not because she didn’t love them or didn’t care, but because her mind, overwhelmed by the endless demands of motherhood and life, slipped into a rare and unsettling fog.…

How I Found Myself Through Her Decline

I never expected that watching her decline would lead me to find myself, but life has a way of teaching us lessons in the most unexpected ways. She was someone I cared about deeply, yet as she struggled—whether with her…

We Built a Routine Because It’s the Only Thing That Stays

We built a routine because it’s the only thing that stays. Life is full of changes—people come and go, circumstances shift, and unexpected events disrupt our plans. But a routine? It’s something steady, something reliable that anchors us when everything…