I saw a glimpse of her yesterday—just for a moment—and it hit me harder than I expected. It wasn’t the kind of sight that brings joy or comfort. Instead, it stirred something deep inside me, something raw and aching, and…
Dementia is often thought of as simply forgetting things, but it’s much more complex than that. While memory loss is a well-known symptom, dementia affects many other parts of the brain, leading to a wide range of changes in behavior,…
My dad tells the same joke every day, and somehow, I still laugh. It’s not because the joke is new or clever anymore—it’s because of what it means to me. Every time he says it, it feels like a little…
Teaching someone how to brush their teeth can be a surprisingly delicate and important task, especially when it’s a young child or someone who’s never learned the right way. I had to teach her how to brush her teeth, and…
I’ve become the keeper of her stories — a role that feels both sacred and deeply personal. It means holding onto the moments, memories, and lessons she shared, even when she’s no longer here to tell them herself. These stories…
I Tuck Her In Like She Once Tucked Me In is a simple yet deeply touching phrase that captures the beautiful cycle of care and love between a parent and child. It speaks to the quiet moments at bedtime when…
She taught me to bake, and now I bake for her. It’s a simple story, but it carries a lot of heart. It all started when I was curious about baking but had no clue where to begin. She, with…
Sometimes, when life throws challenges our way, we expect to feel angry or upset. But instead of anger, many find themselves feeling just plain tired. This tiredness isn’t just about physical exhaustion; it’s a deep emotional weariness that can sneak…
Sometimes, when people say they are “fine,” it’s not really the truth. Saying “fine” can become a way to hide what’s really going on inside. It might feel easier or safer to say everything is okay rather than share feelings…
Some days, she’s here, fully present and engaged, and other days, she’s not. This isn’t about being perfect or always showing up flawlessly. It’s about the reality of presence—not perfection. Life doesn’t demand that she be on her best behavior…