Dementia changed everything I thought I knew about love. Before, love felt like a clear, steady thing—shared memories, deep conversations, physical closeness. But when dementia entered our lives, those familiar ways of loving shifted in ways I never expected. At…
Caregiving is a journey without a clear map. When someone steps into the role of caring for a loved one, they often find themselves navigating unfamiliar territory with no guidebook or instructions. Each caregiving situation is unique, shaped by the…
Sometimes, you keep showing up for someone even when she doesn’t remember you because your feelings and memories of her are strong, but hers might be blocked or lost due to various reasons. Memory is complex and not always reliable—people…
The hardest part about watching someone with dementia or Alzheimer’s disease is seeing them slowly forget who they once were. It’s not just about losing memories; it’s about losing pieces of their identity, their personality, and the connection they had…
I don’t know who she is today, but I still love her. It’s strange how people change, how time reshapes someone you once thought you knew completely. The person I loved before might not be the same person now. Maybe…
For a mind stuck in the past, building a daily routine can feel like trying to move forward while your thoughts keep pulling you backward. I found that the key was creating a structure that gently guides my focus into…
When someone you love is slowly fading away but still right there in front of you, it can feel like living in two worlds at once. You see their face, hear their voice, but inside, you know things are changing—sometimes…
I miss the way she laughed before she forgot how. That laugh was more than just a sound—it was a spark of joy, a moment of connection, a reminder of who she was. It carried warmth and lightness, filling the…
My grandma thinks I’m her sister, and honestly, I just play along. It’s a little strange at first, but it’s also kind of sweet. She gets confused sometimes, mixing up memories and people, and instead of correcting her, I let…
I used to think I was patient. I believed I could wait calmly, handle frustration without losing my cool, and listen without interrupting. But dementia taught me what patience truly means — and it’s nothing like I imagined. When someone…