Steve

Steve

Writing about Open Class Action Lawsuits and Dementia Science and Tips since 2019!

What I’ve learned from being forgotten

Being forgotten is a strange feeling. It’s like standing in a crowded room and realizing no one really sees you. At first, it stings—a sharp reminder that you might not matter as much as you thought. But over time, I’ve…

There is no right way to say goodbye

Saying goodbye is never easy, and the truth is, there really is **no single right way to say goodbye**. Whether it’s leaving a job, ending a chapter in life, or parting from someone you care about, goodbyes come in many…

I didn’t know caregiving meant grieving every single day

I didn’t know caregiving meant grieving every single day. When you become a caregiver, it’s not just about helping with tasks or managing medications—it’s about facing a slow, ongoing loss. You watch someone you love change, sometimes fade, and that…

Why simple kindness matters more than perfect memory

Simple kindness matters more than perfect memory because kindness creates genuine connections and fosters empathy, while perfect memory alone cannot build or sustain meaningful relationships. Kindness is about being present and authentic with others, showing care that strengthens bonds and…

This is not just forgetting it’s unraveling

This is not just forgetting — it’s unraveling. When we think about forgetting, we often imagine a simple slip of memory, like misplacing keys or forgetting a name. But unraveling is something deeper and more complex. It’s like a thread…

I gave up control and finally found peace

I gave up control and finally found peace. It wasn’t about giving up on life or resigning to fate—it was about releasing the tight grip I had on how things should be and learning to flow with what actually is.…

When you lose the person but not the body

Losing the person but not the body is a deeply painful experience where someone you love is physically present but feels emotionally or mentally gone. This can happen in situations like severe illness, dementia, coma, or brain injury, where the…

He forgot how to button his shirt so I learned how to help

He forgot how to button his shirt. It sounds simple, but for him, it became a real challenge. Sometimes, things we take for granted—like fastening buttons—can suddenly feel confusing or frustrating. So, I decided to learn how to help. At…