Why is my grandmother with dementia clutching a doll and calling it her baby?

Grandma’s New “Baby”: Understanding Doll Therapy in Dementia

Have you noticed your grandmother hugging a doll and treating it like a real baby? This might seem strange at first, but it’s actually a common and helpful behavior for people with dementia.

This practice is called doll therapy, and it can bring comfort and purpose to individuals living with memory loss. Let’s explore why this happens and how it can be beneficial.

Why does grandma think the doll is real?

Dementia affects the brain in ways that can make it hard to distinguish between reality and imagination. Your grandmother’s mind may have traveled back to a time when she was caring for her own children or even you as a baby. The doll becomes a tangible connection to those cherished memories.

How does doll therapy help?

Caring for a “baby” can give your grandmother a sense of purpose and responsibility. It may reduce anxiety, improve mood, and even lessen aggressive behaviors. Some studies have shown that doll therapy can increase food intake and social interactions for people with dementia[1][3].

Is it okay to let her keep the doll?

Absolutely! As long as your grandmother finds comfort in the doll, it’s generally fine to let her continue. The doll isn’t just a toy – it’s a therapeutic tool that’s helping her cope with the challenges of dementia[1][3].

What if she gets upset about the doll?

Sometimes, caring for the doll might cause stress. If this happens, gently redirect her attention to something else. Remember, the goal is to provide comfort, not distress.

Should we correct her if she thinks it’s a real baby?

It’s usually best not to contradict her beliefs about the doll. Trying to convince her it’s not real might cause unnecessary confusion or upset. Instead, focus on the positive emotions and behaviors the doll brings out[1][3].

Are there alternatives to dolls?

Yes! Some people prefer stuffed animals or even robotic pets. The key is finding an object that provides comfort and a sense of purpose[3].

Remember, doll therapy is just one of many approaches to help people with dementia. It’s not for everyone, but for many, like your grandmother, it can be a source of joy and calm in a confusing world.