Dementia can cause people to do unusual things, like hiding shoes in the oven. This behavior is common and often stems from confusion, memory loss, and changes in the brain.
Your mother might be hiding her shoes because she’s worried about losing them or thinks they need to be kept safe. The oven may seem like a logical hiding spot to her, even if it doesn’t make sense to others. Sometimes, people with dementia forget where they usually keep things and choose odd places instead.
This behavior can also be a way for your mother to feel in control when other aspects of her life seem confusing. Hiding objects gives her a sense of purpose and security.
It’s important not to scold or argue with your mother about this behavior. Instead, try to understand the emotions behind it and provide reassurance. You could create a special shoe storage area that’s easy for her to see and access, which might reduce her urge to hide them.
Remember to check the oven before turning it on, and consider removing the knobs or disconnecting it if safety becomes a concern. You might also want to keep spare shoes on hand in case the hidden ones can’t be found.
This situation can be frustrating, but it’s a normal part of dementia. Patience, understanding, and creative problem-solving can help you both navigate this challenge[1][3][5].
