Grandma’s Envelope Adventure: Understanding Unusual Behaviors in Dementia
If you’ve noticed your grandmother with dementia licking envelopes and sticking them to the wall, you’re not alone. This behavior might seem strange, but it’s actually quite common in people with dementia. Let’s explore why this happens and what it means.
First off, dementia affects the brain in ways that can change a person’s behavior. As the condition progresses, people might do things that seem odd or out of character. This isn’t because they’re trying to be difficult – it’s just part of how dementia affects their mind[1][3].
One reason for this envelope-licking behavior could be something called “pica.” Pica is when someone eats or mouths things that aren’t food. In dementia, pica can show up as a desire to eat unusual things, including paper products like envelopes[10].
Another explanation might be that your grandmother is trying to make sense of her environment. People with dementia often struggle with understanding their surroundings. Licking and sticking envelopes might be her way of interacting with objects she recognizes from her past[3].
It’s also possible that this behavior is a form of repetitive action. People with dementia sometimes find comfort in repeating familiar tasks. Licking envelopes might be a activity she remembers from her younger days, and doing it over and over feels soothing to her[1].
The wall-sticking part could be an attempt to organize or create order in her space. As dementia progresses, people often have trouble with spatial awareness and might place objects in unusual spots[5].
While this behavior might seem concerning, it’s usually not harmful unless she’s actually eating the envelopes. However, it’s always a good idea to mention any new behaviors to her doctor. They can make sure there’s no underlying issue and offer advice on how to handle the situation.
Remember, your grandmother isn’t doing this on purpose to upset anyone. It’s just her brain working differently now. The best thing you can do is to ensure she’s safe, comfortable, and loved. Maybe you could even give her some safe alternatives to lick and stick, like stickers or removable wall decals, to satisfy this urge in a more manageable way.
Dealing with dementia can be challenging, but understanding these behaviors can help you support your grandmother with patience and compassion. Keep showing her love, and don’t hesitate to seek support for yourself too. You’re doing great!
