Your aunt with dementia carrying around a bag of sugar like it’s a baby is likely due to her condition affecting her memory and perception. Dementia can cause people to confuse objects or believe they’re something else entirely. In this case, your aunt may think the sugar bag is actually a baby or a cherished item from her past.
This behavior is not uncommon in people with dementia. They often find comfort in holding or caring for objects, even if those objects aren’t what they appear to be to the person. The sugar bag might remind your aunt of a time when she cared for a baby, either her own child or perhaps a grandchild. The weight and shape of the bag could feel similar to holding an infant.
For your aunt, this behavior serves a purpose. It may help her feel useful, needed, or connected to a happy memory. Even if it seems strange to others, it’s providing her with a sense of comfort and familiarity in a world that might otherwise feel confusing or scary due to her dementia.
It’s generally best not to forcibly take the sugar bag away from her, as this could cause distress. Instead, ensure she’s safe while carrying it and perhaps provide a more appropriate substitute, like a soft doll, if the sugar bag becomes problematic.
Remember, your aunt isn’t doing this to be difficult. It’s a symptom of her condition and her brain’s way of coping with the changes caused by dementia. Treating her with patience and understanding is key. If you’re concerned about this behavior, it’s always a good idea to consult with her doctor or a dementia care specialist for personalized advice[1][5].
