Dementia can cause unusual behaviors, and one common but puzzling habit is stuffing objects into pockets or wallets. If your father is putting tissues in his wallet, there are a few possible explanations.
First, dementia often impairs memory and judgment. Your dad may simply forget he’s already put tissues there and keep adding more. Or he might not realize his wallet isn’t the right place for tissues.
Sometimes, people with dementia develop repetitive behaviors that feel comforting or purposeful to them. Repeatedly putting tissues in his wallet could be a soothing ritual for your father.
There’s also a condition called “pica” that can occur with dementia, where people eat or mouth non-food items. Your dad may be storing tissues to eat later, even though that seems strange to us[13].
Dementia can also cause hoarding behaviors. Your father might feel an urge to collect and keep items like tissues close to him[1].
Additionally, your dad may be trying to maintain a sense of preparedness or control by always having tissues handy. Dementia is disorienting, so familiar objects can be comforting.
It’s also possible he’s forgetting to use the tissues and just accumulating them. Or he may be confusing tissues with money and trying to “save” them.
While odd, this behavior is usually harmless. However, you should ensure he’s not eating the tissues or stuffing his wallet so full it becomes uncomfortable. Gently redirecting him or providing a designated tissue holder might help.
Remember, dementia affects everyone differently. Your father’s tissue habit likely stems from the changes in his brain, even if the exact reason isn’t clear. Patience and understanding are key as you navigate these unusual behaviors together.
