Dementia can make eating difficult for many reasons. As the disease progresses, your mother may struggle to recognize food or understand how to use utensils. The sight of a full plate might feel overwhelming or confusing to her[1].
Sometimes, people with dementia forget they need to eat or don’t feel hungry due to changes in their brain[13]. They may also have trouble chewing or swallowing safely[4]. Medications can affect appetite too.
Your mother might refuse food if she’s experiencing pain, constipation, or dental issues that make eating uncomfortable[1]. Depression, which is common in dementia, can also reduce appetite[13].
The dining environment matters a lot. Too much noise or activity can be distracting. Your mother may feel more comfortable eating in a calm, familiar setting[1].
As dementia advances, people often prefer finger foods or softer textures that are easier to manage[11]. Offering smaller, more frequent meals instead of large plates of food can help[1].
It’s important to rule out any medical causes for not eating. Consult her doctor if the problem persists. They may recommend working with a speech therapist or nutritionist to find safe, appealing food options[4].
Remember, this refusal isn’t personal. It’s a symptom of how dementia affects the brain. Stay patient and keep trying different approaches to make mealtimes easier for your mother[13].
