How can I get help for my parent with Dementia?

Caring for a parent with dementia can feel overwhelming, but there are many ways to get help and support that make the journey easier for both you and your loved one.

First, it helps to understand what dementia means in daily life. People with dementia often need help with everyday tasks like bathing, dressing, eating, and remembering appointments. Creating a consistent routine can bring comfort and reduce confusion. Planning enjoyable activities your parent likes—such as looking through family photo albums, gardening, cooking together, or playing simple games—can improve their mood and keep them engaged[2].

A shared calendar is another useful tool. It helps keep track of appointments, medication schedules, and special events in an easy-to-see place like on the refrigerator. Setting alarms or reminders can also support memory challenges[2].

Safety is key when caring at home. Making sure the living space is safe by removing tripping hazards or installing locks where needed gives peace of mind.

If caregiving becomes too much to handle alone or if specialized care is needed, memory care facilities offer programs tailored specifically for people with dementia. These places provide social activities designed to stimulate memory and maintain skills while offering professional supervision[3]. Assisted living communities also have experience helping families transition smoothly when moving a parent into their care[5].

Financial help may be available too. Some states offer programs that pay family members who provide care at home for loved ones with Alzheimer’s or other dementias[4]. Paid Family Leave policies let caregivers take time off work while still receiving some income during critical periods of caregiving.

Finally, learning about dementia through caregiver courses or support groups can equip you with practical skills and emotional support from others who understand what you’re going through[1][2].

In short:

– Keep routines steady
– Plan meaningful activities
– Use calendars & reminders
– Ensure safety at home
– Explore memory care options if needed
– Look into financial assistance programs
– Seek education & community support

Getting help doesn’t mean doing it all alone—it means finding resources that make caring manageable while honoring your parent’s dignity every step of the way.